It can be extremely difficult to watch a loved one struggle with drug and alcohol addiction. Family members and close friends of those who are going through addiction usually find it challenging to help, especially when the person suffering has a difficult time acknowledging that they need help, which is often the case. While having an open and honest conversation may be a good start to the recovery process, a more comprehensive approach is usually necessary.
What is a Formal Drug or Alcohol Intervention?
An intervention is a thoughtfully planned process that utilizes the guidance of a doctor, a licensed drug and alcohol counselor, or a professionally trained interventionist. The intervention will usually include family members, close friends, and anyone who cares for the person struggling with addiction.
A formal intervention can help someone with addiction best understand:
While reality TV shows have made interventions more popular, their depictions often provide a false sense of how an intervention should be conducted. In reality, interventions come in various forms and while they should always offer encouragement and incentive for the person struggling with addiction to seek help, they don't always involve a classic family meeting.
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We know that overcoming addiction is challenging and requires the courage and strength to acknowledge that help is needed. With over 40 years of experience, our team of professionals at Sameem Behavioral Health understands how to help individuals overcome substance abuse.
Seeking assistance and support is a significant step towards recovery, and it is essential to remember that you are not alone in this journey. Many people have gone through similar difficulties and have come out stronger on the other side. With the right resources and support, you can overcome addiction and lead a healthy, fulfilling life.
A loved one struggling with addiction will always benefit from a caring, honest conversation about how their behavior is affecting the people they love and who love them most. Typically, a true intervention is a more dramatic step that is appropriate when conversation, therapy, and other less intrusive approaches have failed.
When someone is using drugs or alcohol in an addictive manner, they may show different signs and symptoms depending on which drugs they are using. Looking out for these signs and symptoms can help determine if a loved one is suffering from addiction and in need of an intervention.
There are additional addictive drugs that someone may use, and the signs and symptoms of each addiction may be more exhaustive than what is presented here. In general, any combination of these signs and symptoms may be indicative of a drug addiction and should be taken seriously. If a loved one is experiencing any of these signs and symptoms, an intervention may be necessary.
Even with preparation, there are important points to avoid during an intervention. They are important because they will quickly close your loved one's mind off from listening and considering what you are saying. This will prevent the from agreeing that changes in their behavior are needed and that they need help to do so. It's hard for anyone to agree they can't control themselves and harder to seek help.
To fully understand what an intervention should accomplish, it can be important to know what an intervention should not entail. According to the Association of Professional Intervention Specialists, an intervention should avoid the following:
The only way for interventions to be successful is if they are based in love, honesty, and support. Discussions about emotional hurt, anger, fear, or concern should only come up if they reflect the love of family and friends. An intervention is not a place to embarrass, shame, or scold the person struggling with addiction; these tactics are more likely to make the person retreat further into substance abuse patterns.
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1) Select an Interventionist
It's important to conduct a formal intervention under the guidance of a professional for safety and effectiveness. This professional can be a licensed drug and alcohol counselor, psychiatrist, psychologist, or a professional interventionist. The family can choose someone they already work with, a recommended interventionist, or someone found through diligent research. The addiction professional will help determine the best approach and suggest effective treatment and follow-up plans.
2) Form Intervention Group
The intervention group should comprise of people who are significant to the individual suffering from drug and alcohol addiction. The group may include a best friend, immediate family members, extended family members, and anyone else who is close to the loved one. It is essential to avoid including anyone they dislike or someone who is also struggling with substance abuse. Moreover, if you anticipate that someone might become hostile during the intervention, it is best to exclude them from the group.
3) Plan the Intervention
During the planning process for an intervention, it is crucial to consult with the selected interventionist. The intervention process can often create a highly emotional and intense environment, and a professional can help devise the best plan to maintain effectiveness, even if the individual suffering from addiction becomes angry or hostile. Additionally, the interventionist will assist with the development of the treatment plan and decide who will speak during the intervention.
4) Prepare and Rehearse
Once you have established an intervention group and decided on a plan, it's important that each member prepares what they will say. Writing down what you intend to say during the intervention can be helpful, as it ensures that everyone stays on topic and doesn't say anything out of anger or other heightened emotions. It's also essential to work together to rehearse what the loved one might say and how group members should respond.
5) Decide on Specific Consequences
When dealing with an individual struggling with addiction, they may not always agree to undergo treatment, and it is essential to establish specific consequences beforehand. Each member of the intervention group should determine their course of action if the loved one refuses treatment. For instance, a family member may decide to ask their loved one to move out, while a friend may choose to create some distance in their friendship.
6) Conduct the Intervention
When the loved one arrives at the intervention site, every member of the group will have an opportunity to express their feelings and concerns. They will speak directly to their loved one. After everyone has shared, the loved one will be asked to accept treatment, and they will need to make an immediate decision. Then, each member will share the specific consequences that will result if their loved one refuses to accept treatment.
7) Follow Up
If your loved one chooses to accept treatment, the group members may want to change their personal destructive behaviors. They can attend therapy with the loved one, or attend therapy on their own. It's also important to come up with a plan in case the loved one relapses. On the other hand, if the loved one refuses treatment, each group member needs to follow through with their consequences. They should take care of themselves by setting healthy boundaries and possibly attending therapy.
The primary expense involved in organizing a drug or alcohol intervention is the cost of hiring a professional interventionist to host the intervention. The cost of an interventionist is usually between $1,500 and $10,000, exclusive of any travel expenses. While the cost may seem excessive, it is valuable to have an addiction professional present to ensure that the intervention is effective and to increase the chances of your loved one accepting help and treatment.
In some cases, the financial cost of hiring an interventionist may be much less than the emotional and financial cost of dealing with a loved one who is struggling with drug or alcohol addiction. When other, less expensive options have been exhausted, it may be worth it to bear the financial burden of hiring an interventionist to help your loved one lead a healthy and happy life.
Lastly, there are no guarantees that working with interventionist will work. But working with an interventionist does have greater odds of success.
All formal interventions will generally follow the 7 staging process discussed above. Depending on the situation, one of two common intervention models will be used. The two common models are the Johnson Model and the Family Systemic Model.
Johnson Model
The Johnson Model incorporates seven specific components for intervention:
Family Systemic Model
The Family Systemic Model is a bit different than traditional intervention models and focuses on including the loved one suffering from addiction in every aspect. Following are some of the benefits of the family systems model and family systems therapy:
We know that overcoming addiction is challenging and requires the courage and strength to acknowledge that help is needed. With over 40 years of experience, our team of professionals at Sameem Behavioral Health understands how to help individuals overcome substance abuse.
Seeking assistance and support is a significant step towards recovery, and it is essential to remember that you are not alone in this journey. Many people have gone through similar difficulties and have come out stronger on the other side. With the right resources and support, you can overcome addiction and lead a healthy, fulfilling life.
If you are ready to start your road to recovery from drug or alcohol addiction, Sameem Behavioral Health offers comprehensive care options to address the unique needs of each client. To start your journey to recovery today, call Sameem Behavioral Health at 617-213-6887.
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